• We undervalue qualities that matter for long-term relationships and overvalue irrelevant ones.

    Logan Ury

  • Nothing in life is as importantant as you think it is while you are thinking about it.

    Daniel Kahneman

  • Superficial qualities like looks and money matter less for long-term relational success than people think they do.

    Logan Ury

  • Couples do not need to share hobbies to create a successful long-term relationship.

    Dr. John Gottman

WHAT ACTUALLY MATTERS

Age + Stage of Life

Do you want kids?

A compatible desire for children is one of the biggest factors in long-term relationship success. This is why we take into account your age + stage when making connections, and only match you with people who are in alignment.

This means we match people 5 years +/- unless it impacts the desire for children.

Faith Expression

What does being a Christian mean to you?

Faith (or religion) is the most important factor in a healthy long-term relationship, as it is foundational to our beliefs and values.

But it’s more than just faith/religion, it’s the way that it’s expressed.

That’s why our first match priority is connecting people with similar faith expressions, such as a relationship with Jesus and community/church involvement.

Physical Equitability

Attraction matters, but It’s not two-dimensional.

Physical attraction is an integral part of a healthy long-term relationship, but it’s so much more than their looks. It is also in how someone carries themselves, their facial expressions, and even how they smell!

Attraction is the sum of qualities - both seen and unseen.

Physical Equitability is our distinctive approach to matchmaking, where matches are made with a balanced and comprehensive view of attractiveness